INFPs are focused on making the world a better place for people. Their primary goal is to find out their meaning in life. What is their purpose? How can they best serve humanity in their lives?
Although they may be reserved in expressing emotion, they have a very deep well of caring and are genuinely interested in understanding people, making the INFP a valued friend and confidant.
INFPs do not like conflict, and go to great lengths to avoid it. In conflict situations, INFP place little importance on who is right and who is wrong. They focus on the way that the conflict makes them feel, and indeed don’t really care whether or not they are right. They don’t want to feel badly.
INFPs have very high standards and are perfectionists. Consequently, they are usually hard on themselves, and don’t give themselves enough credit. In group situations, they may have a “control” problem, because their standards are likely to be higher than other members of the group.